Watch Family Secrets: When Nobody's Looking (1970) : Full Movie Online Free From the outside looking in, author Donald D'Haenes childhood hardly seemed unconventional. He grew up in a patriarchal family with his mother, father and two siblings. Home life was strict and regimented, his father was clearly the master of the house. But as a devout Jehovahs Witness, this was hardly out of the ordinary. On the surface, Donalds youth would resonate with anyone raised in the slow-paced sanctity of a small town. Years later, Donald would reveal a sad tale of survival, struggle and strife in his book, A Fathers Touch, his memoirs about enduring years of sexual abuse at the hands of his father, subsequently retold in this documentary Family Secrets, When Nobody's Looking.